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Sometimes you need to cry with a friend when she has been hurt and tell her you'd feel the same, take it all in, and sit there with it.

Sometimes you need to put a brightly colored shirt on when it's rainy outside to get you through the day (even if you wore it two days ago)

Sometimes you need to let things go even when they want to simmer inside...

Sometimes you need to cup your husbands face in your hands to take it in a second longer before you go

Sometimes you need to blast music that contains a banjo, loud in your ears at work, that makes you want to tap your foot

Sometimes you need to plan a dinner date to look forward (even when you really shouldn't spend the money)

Sometimes you need to take it a day at a time... an hour at a time... a minute...

and if all else fails sometimes and extra cup of coffee doesn't hurt...